When I begin to feel a little sorry for myself, perhaps even a victim of my circumstances, God reminds me that I am His servant in every circumstance.
Praying for the spirit God gives for the situations in which He places me.
For God gave us not a spirit of fearfulness, but of power and love and discipline. 2 Timothy 1:7
Then the Lord said to Satan, “Have you considered my servant Job? There is no one on earth like him; he is blameless and upright, a man who fears God and shuns evil. And he still maintains his integrity, through you incited me against him to ruin him without any reason.” Job 2:3